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Date Rape - NO Means NO!


What is date Rape?

When someone you know--a date, boyfriend, or casual friend-- forces you to have sex.


 

Statistics

http://www.uvss.uvic.ca/avp/statistics.htm


Myths

Rape is committed by crazed strangers.
A woman that gets raped deserves it, especially if she agreed to go to the manís house or a ride in his car.
Women who donít fight back havenít been raped.
If there is no gun or knife, you havenít been raped.
Itís not really rape if the victim isnít a virgin.
If a woman lets a man buy her dinner or pay for a movie or drinks, she owes him sex.
Agreeing to kiss or neck with a man means that a women has agreed to have sex with him.
When men are sexually aroused, they need to have sex or they will get ďblue ballsĒ.



Reality

Most women are raped by ďnormalĒ acquaintances.
No one, male or female, deserves to be raped. Being in a manís house or car does not mean a woman has agreed to have sex with him.
You have been raped when you are forced to have sex against your will, whether you fight back or not.
Itís rape whether there are weapons or not, you own diminished physical or mental state, the weight of his body to overcome you.
Rape is rape, even if the woman isnít a virgin, even if she is willingly had sex with the same man before.
No one owes sex as a payment to anyone else, no matter how expensive the date.
Everyone has the right to say ďnoĒ to sexual activity, regardless of what has proceeded it and to have the ďnoĒ respected.
Men donít physically need to have sex after becoming aroused anymore than women do. Men are still able to control themselves even after becoming sexually excited


What to look for and How to protect your self!! 

 

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You wake up not remembering the night before.

     Here are some signs to look for:

What do you do now?

http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa062502a.htm

http://www.4woman.gov/faq/rohypnol.htm#6


Every one has different experiences after being raped:

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Date Rape Drugs - What is out there.

     Rohypnol 

             

Rophy, Ruffles, Roofies, Ruffies, Ruff Up, Rib, Roach 2, R2, R2-Do-U, Roche, Rope, Ropies, Circles, Circes, Forget It, Forget-Me-pill, Mexican Valium.
The pills are small and white with a split-pill line on one side and the word "ROCHE" with the number 1 or 2 in a circle stamped on the other. They are quickly dissolved in liquid especially when crushed first.

Gamma Hydroxy Butyrate (GHB)

    

Easy Lay, EZ Lay, Liquid Ecstasy, Ellie, Clear X, Liquid X, X-rater, XTC, Chemical X, Liquid Dream, Scoop, Scoop Her, Get-Her-to-Bed.
It looks exactly like water.

 

Ketamine Hydrochloride

 

Special K, Super K, K, OK, KO, Vitamin K, Kid Rock, Ket Kat, Make-Her-Mine.
In undiluted form it looks like an off-white powder, in diluted form it looks like slightly cloudy water.

 

Ecstasy  

                                Adam, XTC, E

 

http://www.4woman.gov/faq/rohypnol.htm#1

http://www.odos.uiuc.edu/women/date_rape_drugs.asp


 

Help is out there.


CHIMO (24 Hours) - 1-800-667-5005


Community Health Centre - 632-5537


Community Mental Health Services - 658-3737


Health & Community Services - 658-2734
after 4:30 or weekends - 1-800-442-9799


Hestia House - 634-7570


Police ( emergencies only ) - 911


Hampton RCMP - 832-5566


Community Health Centre                    632-5537


Community Mental Health Services      658-3737


Health Community Services                  658-2734  After Hours or weekends 1-800-442-9799

Rothesay Regional Police                      847-6300


Saint John Police Force                         Daytime 648-3303   Evening 648-3333


Saint John Regional Hospital                  648-6000


St. Joseph's Regional Hospital               632-5555

Community Health Center - CHC
116 Coburg Street
Local:   632-5537
c/o St. Joseph's Hospital
E-mail:chamo@reg2.health.nb.ca
Saint John, NB
E2L 3K1

Public Health - Dept. Health and Wellness
Mercantile Center
Local:  658-2454
55 Union Street
PO Box 93
Saint John, NB
E2L 3X1

http://www.emergency.com/roofies.htm


http://www.satcontario.com/help/


Other Links

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